A fact-finding hearing can help the court resolve disputed issues that matter to the child’s future and any orders the court may make. Understanding why a hearing may be ordered, and what happens afterwards, can make it easier to prepare.

What is a fact-finding hearing?

A fact-finding hearing considers evidence about disputed events or behaviour where the judge decides whether they are likely to have happened based on the balance of probabilities. This is a wider test than that for criminal proceedings where decisions must be based beyond reasonable doubt – a much higher bar.

A fact finding hearing most commonly occurs during proceedings about child arrangements where one parent might say that the other has been physically abusive towards them. If the allegation is denied and the court considers it necessary to resolve the issue, it may arrange a hearing to examine the evidence.

A fact-finding hearing rarely decides the final child arrangements itself. It is often one stage in the proceedings, followed by further assessment and, if needed, a later hearing.

Who decides whether a hearing is necessary?

Although a parent can ask the court for a fact finding hearing, it is ultimately for the judge or magistrates to determine how the case should proceed. The court will consider the views of the parents and, where involved, Cafcass. It will also look at whether there are admissions or other reliable evidence that provide a sufficient basis for assessing the child’s welfare.

The court should ask itself whether a hearing is necessary and proportionate, and may decide to examine the most significant issues without investigating every disagreement between the parents. Where domestic abuse is alleged, the court’s reasons for deciding that a fact-finding hearing is unnecessary should be recorded in its order.

How are allegations and responses set out?

Before the hearing, the court will make directions explaining what each person must do and when. These directions are intended to identify the issues and ensure that the necessary evidence is available.

The parent making allegations may be asked to prepare a written statement, and the other parent will be given an opportunity to provide their own statement in response.

The court may also direct the parties to complete a schedule or table setting out the allegations and responses. This can help everyone understand which matters are admitted and which remain disputed.

An allegation should be clear enough for the other person to understand and respond to it, and where possible, it should explain what happened and when. However, a person describing a long period of controlling behaviour may not be able to remember the exact date of every incident. Their account may instead explain the wider pattern, using examples to show how the behaviour affected them.

What evidence can the court consider?

The court can consider different kinds of evidence, depending on the allegations and the issues it needs to decide, including:

  • Text messages help the court understand what was said between the parents at a particular time.
  • Medical records where a person sought treatment following an alleged incident.
  • Police information where officers were called to the family home or a complaint was made.
  • Other witnesses, such as someone who saw an incident or observed its immediate aftermath.

Other records may help to place events in context; for example, if a parent says that the other controlled their access to money, relevant financial information might help the court understand how the household’s finances operated.

Can parents and other witnesses be questioned?

Questioning gives each side an opportunity to challenge evidence and put forward a different account of events. Where a parent has a solicitor or barrister representing them at the hearing, their representative may ask questions on their behalf.

However, there are important protections where domestic abuse is an issue. In certain circumstances, the law prohibits one party from personally cross-examining the other, or a witness, and the court may also make a direction prohibiting it in other circumstances.

If a prohibition applies and the party has no legal representative to conduct the questioning, the court must consider how the evidence can be tested. This may include considering whether a qualified legal representative should be appointed for that purpose.

Parents and witnesses can ask the court to consider arrangements that help them participate and give their best evidence. Depending on the circumstances, these might include a screen in the courtroom or giving evidence by video link. Separate waiting arrangements may also be considered. It is important that any concerns are raised as early as possible so that the court has time to address them and apply any measures.

What findings can the judge make?

The judge may find that an allegation is proved, that it is not proved, or that some parts are proved while others are not. For example, a parent might allege several incidents of threatening behaviour; the judge may find that one incident occurred but conclude that there is insufficient evidence to make findings about the others.

In a case involving an alleged pattern of abuse, the court may make findings about the nature and extent of the behaviour it considers established. The judgment should explain the judge’s reasoning, and relevant findings will be recorded so they can be taken into account as the case continues.

What happens if an allegation is not proved?

An allegation that is not proved has not been established to the standard required by the family court. It does not necessarily mean that the judge has found that the person who made it deliberately lied. There may be conflicting evidence, uncertainty about what happened or insufficient information for the judge to make a finding.

Once an allegation has been determined as not proved, the court should not treat it as an established fact when making its later decisions. The judge will continue to consider any findings that were made, together with other relevant evidence about the child’s welfare.

How can findings affect child arrangements?

Findings can have an important influence on decisions about where a child lives and how they spend time with each parent. Their effect will depend on the nature of the behaviour, the risk it presents and the child’s circumstances.

A finding of domestic abuse does not automatically mean that a parent will never see their child, but the court must consider whether contact would be safe and beneficial, and what arrangements could manage any risk.

The court must also consider the safety of the parent caring for the child; a handover arrangement that exposes that parent to further abuse can affect both their wellbeing and the child’s. Findings may therefore influence where handovers take place or whether the parents need to have direct contact with one another.

If you would like advice about a fact-finding hearing in children proceedings, please contact our family law team today. We can help you understand the process, prepare your case and consider what the outcome may mean for your child’s future arrangements.

View related pages: 

Child Arrangements Child Contact Disputes
Domestic Abuse & Child Arrangements Parental Responsibility Orders And Agreements
Parental Alienation & Family Law Child Residence & Living Arrangements
Supervised & Supported Child Contact Complex Child Arrangements Disputes
Varying & Enforcing Child Arrangements Orders Fact-Finding Hearings In Children Proceedings

 

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The Scenario

Mr and Mrs H separated. Mr H moved a few streets away and their eldest boy (now 15) lived with him. The younger children (14 and 12) stayed with Mrs H but the children live near each other and attend the same school.

Mrs H remarried and wishes to move to her new husband's city. Mr H sought advice about residence of the other children. He told us the middle child wanted to stay at school with his friends.

Our Solution

There is no set age at which a child can "choose". Nevertheless in reality it would be hard for Mrs H to resist the 14 year old's wishes. We needed to be careful not to stress the children. Rather than issuing proceedingswe arranged mediation for Mr and Mrs H to discuss the issues.

We advised Mr H to be flexible regarding contact. They reached an amicable arrangement for all children to live with Mr H for the school week and half weekends; and flexible school holiday arrangements.

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Children's Issues FAQs

Here is a selection of common questions relating to how children are involved in and affected by the divorce process. If you have unanswered questions, please contact us using the form above or you can contact us here.

Who Can Apply For Child Arrangements Orders?

Either parent can apply for orders relating to children as well as anyone with parental responsibility for the child. Sometimes grandparents or other relatives ask us if they can apply for child arrangements orders. The answer is that they can but they need to clear an extra hurdle first by seeking the permission of the court to do so.

Can I Use Mediation To Settle Disputes About The Children?

Yes. Most child issues are settled through negotiation and mediation. Court is often seen as a last resort. The mediation process is less formal than the court process and many of our clients report that they find mediation less stressful than the idea of going to court. Agreeing arrangements also gives you more of a sense of control over the issues. And it’s possible to formalise anything you agree with your ex spouse through mediation by making the agreement part of a Consent Order.  Once you get this approved by a family judge it’s legally binding.

Do we have to go to Court to decide what will happen to the children?

No, in almost all cases this is not required. Typically, the parents agree and often formalise the arrangement with the assistance of their lawyer. Where parents agree there is usually no need for any court order at all. If the parents cannot agree it would then become a matter for the Court to decide.

Can I insist that I see my child on special occasions, such as birthdays?

Normally the non-resident parent will be able to agree to see their child on significant dates and occasions. This can either be agreed informally with the other parent but if there is a dispute then the non-resident parent could apply for a court order.

Can I take my child to live abroad after divorce?

Permission will be required from the other parent or via a court order. Taking your child abroad for longer than a holiday would be considered abduction and the other parent could apply to the Child Abduction Unit to have your child brought home.

What happens to step children regarding custody and maintenance?

If the step-parent has taken the role of parent during the marriage and their ex-spouse (the biological parent) is not able to provide for the child, the step-parent may then be required to pay child maintenance.  Whilst it is typical for the child’s biological parent to gain residence, this is not always the case. It will depend on how capable the parents are to provide for the child what is in the child’s best interests.

Does the CMS (formerly the CSA) have to be involved in deciding child maintenance?

No. Whilst you may use a CMS calculation to aid with deciding a maintenance payment figure, it is then common for a private maintenance agreement to be set up by your lawyers. The CMS or court do not then need to be involved. If required, 12 months from the agreement, the CMS can become involved if either party wishes it.

Can I change my child’s surname after divorce?

Changing your child’s surname would require the other parent’s written consent or a court order.

Will the family home be retained for the child to live in?

If it is in the best interests of the child to remain in the family home with one of the parents it is possible that the court will order the home to be retained for a set length of time.

Can I move with my child to another part of the UK?

If you are the resident parent, you do not need the other parent’s permission to move with your child within the UK. However, the other parent could request a court order preventing you from moving whilst the situation is looked at in more detail. In making a decision as to the child’s living arrangements, the court will always look first at what is in the best interests of the child.

Can I take my child abroad on holiday?

If you have a court order setting out that the child is to live with you then you do not need ask permission from the other parent to go on holiday abroad for up to 28 days. If you do not have a court order, you will require the permission of the other parent. If the other parent will not give permission, you can apply for an order to go on holiday with the child.

Will my ex-spouse having a new partner affect what contact they can have with our child?

Typically no. However, if you have good reason to be concerned about your child’s welfare with regard to your ex’s new partner, you could apply for conditions to be imposed upon the existing contact arrangements.

Can our child choose which parent they live with?

If the child is old enough and has sufficient understanding to state a preference, the court will take into account their wishes. It is however unlikely that the child will simply be asked to choose because it is an unfair question and the reasons behind a child’s answer may be mixed. The court will however also consider wider factors, including each parent’s ability to meet the child’s needs, the child’s safety and how the new change in circumstances may affect the child.

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